Dear Strong, Independent Young Women,
There's nothing wrong with taking care of a household or having a family. I've been seeing the videos y'all are making about not needing men, no need to get into that too much, you know you're full of it. If you twist your ankle trying to escape the second floor of a burning building you're not going to want a 5'5, 115 lb woman to show up to try to rescue you.
And we all know there are jobs men do that you couldn't and wouldn't dream of doing, so get over the nonsense. Equality is about being seen as equally valuable in what you bring, you girls want someone who has value to pay for you to not have to have any.
Be for real, you're whole thing is that you don't even want to clean up after yourself, you want a man who can afford to hire someone to do that for you. You want a man who makes enough money to lavish you with free nail and hair care for life, things you care about far more than he does despite your claims you need them to look good "for him." Then you want shit like a new car whenever you fancy one and a Summer home. You want him to make enough money for you to hire someone else to live your life for you. OK, maybe not all you bitches are like that, but a lot of you are straight up delusional.
Know your worth. A high body count doesn't show your worth to men, you're just competing with other women on that one, and it's just a slut contest. How is that something to take pride in? When the trend is over you can't have your whoriness removed like you can the putrefied fat you injected into your ass when the trend leaned towards big butts. Trends fade, family doesn't, not if you're lucky enough to have a good one.
What can a woman who intentionally brings nothing to the table offer besides, in many cases, her cat, which everyone in town has already had a go at. She might say, "I bring ME to the table," but honey, you ain't all that. Not for the long term. You're just making yourself disposable and dismissible, like any other dirty stray.
You want to hire people to keep your house rather than have the self respect to know the value in doing it yourself. You think having Maria Garcia in your pocket to clean your house and raise your kids is the same kind of flex as if you did the work yourself, it isn't. Instead you end up not being able to take responsibility for anything in your life, having no real reason to feel good about your useless ass, and you end up with kids who resent you. All this and you have no idea how to fix those broken relationships because Maria Garcia knows your family better than you do.
As to that, having children, they are a direct reflection of you, there is no better way to flex your own righteous awesomeness than through raising good kids. Raising them, not paying someone else to do it. Showing them what healthy relationships look like through the good times and the bad. Family isn't a bad thing and it shouldn't be something you're ashamed of, unless you're doing it all wrong.
Your club life, fit checks and trending rants won't be there in 30 years, nor will your OF, regardless of how much stuffing you have. You know what will be there? A loving husband, well adjusted kids, a beautiful home and great relationships with friends and family. If you do it and right and are very, very lucky and stop being insufferable whores, you could have all that. Know who already has that? Maria Garcia, and she'll still have it in 30 years.
Do Better, you deserve it.
There's nothing wrong with taking care of a household or having a family. I've been seeing the videos y'all are making about not needing men, no need to get into that too much, you know you're full of it. If you twist your ankle trying to escape the second floor of a burning building you're not going to want a 5'5, 115 lb woman to show up to try to rescue you.
And we all know there are jobs men do that you couldn't and wouldn't dream of doing, so get over the nonsense. Equality is about being seen as equally valuable in what you bring, you girls want someone who has value to pay for you to not have to have any.
Be for real, you're whole thing is that you don't even want to clean up after yourself, you want a man who can afford to hire someone to do that for you. You want a man who makes enough money to lavish you with free nail and hair care for life, things you care about far more than he does despite your claims you need them to look good "for him." Then you want shit like a new car whenever you fancy one and a Summer home. You want him to make enough money for you to hire someone else to live your life for you. OK, maybe not all you bitches are like that, but a lot of you are straight up delusional.
Know your worth. A high body count doesn't show your worth to men, you're just competing with other women on that one, and it's just a slut contest. How is that something to take pride in? When the trend is over you can't have your whoriness removed like you can the putrefied fat you injected into your ass when the trend leaned towards big butts. Trends fade, family doesn't, not if you're lucky enough to have a good one.
What can a woman who intentionally brings nothing to the table offer besides, in many cases, her cat, which everyone in town has already had a go at. She might say, "I bring ME to the table," but honey, you ain't all that. Not for the long term. You're just making yourself disposable and dismissible, like any other dirty stray.
You want to hire people to keep your house rather than have the self respect to know the value in doing it yourself. You think having Maria Garcia in your pocket to clean your house and raise your kids is the same kind of flex as if you did the work yourself, it isn't. Instead you end up not being able to take responsibility for anything in your life, having no real reason to feel good about your useless ass, and you end up with kids who resent you. All this and you have no idea how to fix those broken relationships because Maria Garcia knows your family better than you do.
As to that, having children, they are a direct reflection of you, there is no better way to flex your own righteous awesomeness than through raising good kids. Raising them, not paying someone else to do it. Showing them what healthy relationships look like through the good times and the bad. Family isn't a bad thing and it shouldn't be something you're ashamed of, unless you're doing it all wrong.
Your club life, fit checks and trending rants won't be there in 30 years, nor will your OF, regardless of how much stuffing you have. You know what will be there? A loving husband, well adjusted kids, a beautiful home and great relationships with friends and family. If you do it and right and are very, very lucky and stop being insufferable whores, you could have all that. Know who already has that? Maria Garcia, and she'll still have it in 30 years.
Do Better, you deserve it.
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